
Minnie Lee Weakley has always been able to manage her own destiny - as well as the destinies of everyone who happened to be nearby. She was born on a small
“Okra is another cash crop,” she explains to me since I know nothing of either crops or cash. “And when I got older I had to help with the harvest. But those okra plants sting your skin wherever you touch them.” At age fifteen, Minnie Lee was fed up with stinging plants, arsenic fingers, and a father who ignored her insistence that the children see more benefits from their labor; she left the farm for good. She wasn’t a runaway, exactly, since she told her parents that she was leaving. When they asked where she would go, she says she responded “I don’t know, but I’ll figure it out on the way.”
She eventually found her way to the city of
After the war, there was a massive media campaign to bring women back into the home and to convince women like Minnie Lee, young and newly married, that working to help support the family was unfeminine. Of course, Minnie Lee did not see staying at home as a viable option; she had the ability to earn money and money was what her family most needed. There have always been at least two feminisms – one for wealthy women and one for working women. Although Minnie Lee’s fair skin and dark hair might have made her look a bit like Mary Tylor Moore, women’s rights weren’t something for which she consciously campaigned; yet neither was she content to let her family suffer a decrease in income so that she could conform to the highly promoted image of the good (stay-at-home) wife and mother. Minnie Lee continued to work factory jobs, and she continued to demand respect from her now mainly male coworkers. She meant for her children to have good educational opportunities, and they did. Minnie Lee does not see her life as having been anything extraordinary. She reminds me that many women of her generation left their childhood homes, came to the cities, worked in factories during the war, and stayed in the workplace afterward. When she talks of leaving her father’s farm to make a different life elsewhere, she simply says, “I was not a country girl, even though I was born there. I felt at home when I came to the city.” Yet, although she might not realize it herself, her decisions have consistently been brave ones by which she empowered herself, and, by extension, all of us.
Thanks, Nana!


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I used to work with the same kind of worm that your Nana talks about. They're bright green and can get really big. Probably Manduca Sexta.
Let me try phrasing the comment that I just had to delete more accurately because it sounded a bit muddled.
Excellent post!
I think that Nana absolutely qualifies as the appropriate first entry in your soon to be "Fabulous Women" series!
Thanks, but it should be OUR "Fabulous Women Series," since you are next on my list of interviewees. I hope you're feeling gabby.
Also, the world wants to know more about that friend of yours who spends 6 months a year in Antarctica, so I want to convince you to conduct some interviews as well...
And I'm open to other suggestions too.
I love it!
~Bec
Bec! I'm glad you approve! Besides being my Nana, she is the sort of person I'd love to write a book about. But can be a bit difficult to get Nana to open up about her own life sometimes. She's often more interested in telling me just how many babies I should be having ;)
Beautiful characterization of a wonderful woman.
-Chelle
Wow! Beautifully done. Truly a tribute to a great and well-lived life. pc
So how many babies are you going to have? :)
Nana???
You know, you don't have to be married to have babies...
Yup - that's my Nana... a true independent thinker who knows what she wants. And right now she wants more great grandchildren.
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